Turning 21 felt like a milestone, not just because of the number, but because of everything I’ve learned along the way. As I reflect on my journey so far, these 21 lessons have become the foundation of how I live my life. Some came from experience, others from growth, and a few from the people I’ve crossed paths with. These are the reminders that guide me through each day, shaping the way I see the world and the way I choose to show up in it.
- Celebrate the little things; they add up to the big moments.
- It’s okay to say no and you don’t need to justify.
- Everyone comes into your life for a reason, and not everyone is meant to stay, even if you wanted them to.
- You aren’t responsible for everyone’s happiness.
- Effort always pays off.
- Don’t take criticism from someone you wouldn’t take advice from.
- Use your phone, but don’t let it use you.
- Asking for help doesn’t make you weak.
- True friendships don’t fade; they adapt.
- You become the people you surround yourself with, so choose wisely.
- Learn to pause.
- Treat others how you would like to be treated.
- Be kind to your parents; it’s their first time living too.
- Growth and comfort don’t coexist. Always push yourself.
- Strive for progress rather than perfection.
- Let things go. trust me it’s not worth it.
- Set boundaries. Protect your peace. don’t be afraid to cut people out when needed.
- It’s better to be alone than surrounded by people who make you feel alone.
- Be true to yourself but remember you are always evolving.
- Travel. Meet new people, places and perspectives.
- Let loose, have fun, and don’t be scared of embarrassing yourself, it’s part of the experience
These lessons are a part of who I am and how I approach life every day. If you'd like to hear me share them in my own voice check out this Instagram reel!
